You’ve probably heard the “age 7” rule. But if your kid is 5 with a funky bite, or 9 with perfectly straight teeth, does it even apply to you?
Here’s the thing: most parents we meet feel a little lost on this one. Maybe your dentist mentioned a referral. Maybe your mother-in-law has opinions. Maybe you’ve Googled this exact question at 11pm and ended up more confused than when you started.
We get it. There’s a lot of conflicting advice out there.
This guide breaks down exactly when your child should see an orthodontist, what actually happens at that first visit (spoiler: it’s quick and painless), and the signs that might mean coming in sooner makes sense. You’ll also learn why early visits aren’t just about crooked teeth, and when it’s perfectly fine to wait.
As a mom of four who also happens to be an orthodontist, I’ve sat on both sides of this conversation. Let me walk you through what I’d tell a friend.
What’s the Right Age for a First Orthodontist Visit?
The American Association of Orthodontists recommends children have their first orthodontist visit by age 7. At this age, your child’s adult molars and front teeth are typically coming in, which gives us a clear window into how their jaw is growing, whether their bite is developing properly, and if there’s enough room for the permanent teeth still on deck.
Why 7 specifically? It’s not a random number. Around this age, we can spot issues that are much easier to address while your child is still growing. Think of it like steering a car that’s already moving versus trying to push a parked one.
That doesn’t mean every 7-year-old needs braces. Most don’t. But an early evaluation lets us catch the things that benefit from early intervention and, just as importantly, confirm when waiting is the right call.
Here’s what I tell families: the first visit is about information, not obligation. You walk out knowing where things stand and what (if anything) to watch for. No treatment happens that day. No pressure.
Your Child’s First Visit: What Actually Happens
If you’re picturing your kid strapped into a chair while someone pokes around for an hour, take a breath. That’s not how this works.
A first orthodontist visit is really just a conversation with some observation. The whole thing usually takes about 30 minutes, and most of that is us getting to know your child and answering your questions.
Here’s the typical flow:
We’ll take a look at your child’s teeth and bite, sometimes with X-rays, sometimes just visually. We’re checking how the adult teeth are coming in, how the jaw is growing, and whether the upper and lower teeth fit together the way they should.
Then we talk. What did we see? What does it mean? What are the options, if any?
Nine times out of ten, kids leave the first visit feeling pretty good about it. We’re not doing anything that hurts. We’re just looking and chatting. Many kids actually think it’s kind of cool. They get to see X-rays of their own mouth, learn some new vocabulary, and (in our office) grab a coffee shop treat on the way out.
The key thing to know: no treatment starts at a first visit. This is purely an evaluation. You’ll leave with information, not a bill.
5 Signs Your Child Might Need to Come In Sooner
Most kids can wait until around age 7 for their first visit. But some benefit from coming in earlier. Here are the signs I watch for in my patients and in my own four kids.
1. Early or Late Loss of Baby Teeth
Baby teeth usually start falling out around age 6. If your child loses them significantly earlier (before 5) or later (after 8), it’s worth a check. The timing of baby tooth loss affects how permanent teeth come in.
2. Difficulty Chewing or Biting
Does your child avoid certain foods? Complain that chewing hurts? Bite their cheek or tongue frequently? These can signal bite problems that are easier to fix early.
3. Mouth Breathing or Snoring
This one surprises parents. Chronic mouth breathing, especially during sleep, can actually affect jaw development over time. If your child snores regularly or always breathes through their mouth, it’s worth mentioning.
4. Thumb Sucking Past Age 5
Thumb sucking is totally normal in younger kids. But if it continues past age 5 or so, it can start to shift teeth and affect jaw growth. We can help with strategies and assess any changes that have already happened.
5. Crowding, Spacing, or Teeth That Don’t Meet Properly
You don’t need a dental degree to notice if teeth look crowded, have big gaps, or seem “off” when your child bites down. If something looks unusual to you, trust your instincts and have it checked.
Here’s the bottom line: if you’re noticing any of these signs, an early visit gives you answers, not anxiety. We’d much rather see a child and say “everything looks great, let’s check back in a year” than have a family wait and wish they hadn’t.
Not Just Crooked Teeth: What We’re Really Checking
Here’s something most parents don’t realize: orthodontists aren’t just looking at whether teeth are straight.
Straight teeth are part of it, sure. But we’re also evaluating your child’s bite (how the upper and lower teeth come together) and how the jaw itself is developing.
Why does this matter?
A bite that’s off (what we call malocclusion) can cause problems beyond appearance. Overbites, underbites, and crossbites can lead to uneven wear on teeth, jaw pain, difficulty chewing, and even speech issues. Catching these early, while the jaw is still growing, gives us more options and often means simpler treatment later.
We’re also looking at airway. Narrow jaws or certain bite patterns can contribute to breathing issues, especially during sleep. This is an area of orthodontics that’s gotten a lot more attention in recent years, and for good reason.
| What We’re Checking | What It Means | Why Early Detection Helps |
| Tooth alignment | Are teeth coming in straight or crowded? | Early intervention can create space for adult teeth |
| Bite relationship | Do upper and lower teeth meet correctly? | Correcting bite issues during growth is often easier |
| Overbite | Upper teeth extend too far over lower teeth | Can affect appearance and cause wear |
| Underbite | Lower teeth sit in front of upper teeth | Often linked to jaw growth patterns |
| Crossbite | Some upper teeth sit inside lower teeth | Can cause jaw shifting and uneven growth |
| Jaw growth | Is the jaw developing symmetrically? | Growth guidance works best while still growing |
| Airway/breathing | Is jaw structure affecting breathing? | Early expansion can improve airway space |
The point isn’t to find problems. It’s to understand the full picture. Some kids have beautifully straight teeth but a bite that needs attention. Others have crowded teeth but a bite that’s developing just fine. Context matters.
Is It Okay to Wait? When Watching and Waiting Works
Here’s something I want every parent to hear: most kids don’t need early orthodontic treatment.
The majority of children we see at age 7 fall into the “let’s keep an eye on things” category. Their adult teeth are coming in fine. Their bite is developing normally. There’s nothing that needs intervention right now.
And that’s great news.
For these kids, we’ll typically recommend a check-in every 6 to 12 months until they’re ready for treatment, usually around ages 10 to 14, when most permanent teeth are in and growth is still happening. This monitoring is usually complimentary, and it means we catch the right moment to start treatment when (and if) it’s needed.
So when is waiting the right call?
- The bite is developing normally
- There’s enough space for permanent teeth to come in
- No jaw growth concerns
- No functional issues (chewing, breathing, speech)
Waiting isn’t ignoring the issue. It’s strategic timing. Orthodontic treatment works best at certain stages of development, and starting too early can sometimes mean longer overall treatment.
If we tell you to wait, we mean it. There’s no sales pitch here. We’d rather see your child thrive with well-timed treatment than rush into something that isn’t necessary yet.
How to Find an Orthodontist Your Child Will Actually Like
Not all orthodontist offices feel the same. Here’s what I’d look for if I were a parent choosing one for my own kids (which, full disclosure, I have done four times).
Look for consistency. Will your child see the same doctor at every visit? Or will they rotate through whoever’s available? Consistency builds trust, especially for kids who are nervous.
Pay attention to the vibe. Does the office feel welcoming or clinical? Do the staff seem genuinely happy to be there? Kids pick up on this stuff faster than adults do.
Ask about communication. Will the orthodontist take time to explain what’s happening and why? Can you ask questions without feeling rushed? You should never feel like you’re on a conveyor belt.
Check their approach to finances. A good office will talk openly about costs and work with you on payment options without judgment. If money questions feel awkward or dismissed, that’s a red flag.
Trust your gut. After the first visit, ask your child how they felt. Did they like the people? Did they understand what was happening? Would they be okay going back?
The right orthodontist makes the whole experience easier for your child and for you. Because let’s be real: you’re going to be at a lot of appointments over the next couple years. It helps to actually enjoy showing up.
Curious about what a first visit looks like at our office? Learn more about what to expect at your first visit or check out some of our smile stories. Ready to get answers? Book a free consultation, no pressure, no commitment.
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens if I wait too long to take my child to an orthodontist?
You won’t “miss the window” entirely, but earlier evaluation gives more options. Some issues, like guiding jaw growth, are easier to address while your child is still growing. If you’ve waited past age 7, that’s okay. Come in now and we’ll assess where things stand.
Does my child need a referral from a dentist to see an orthodontist?
No referral is needed. Many families come to us directly after noticing something themselves or hearing the age 7 recommendation. That said, your dentist’s input can be helpful, and we’re always happy to coordinate care.
How much does a first orthodontist visit cost?
At most practices, including ours, the initial consultation is free. You’ll get a full evaluation, answers to your questions, and a treatment recommendation (if applicable) at no cost and no obligation.
Will my 7-year-old definitely need braces after the first visit?
Most don’t. The majority of kids we see at age 7 are doing just fine and simply need monitoring. Only about 20 to 25 percent of children benefit from early (Phase 1) treatment. The first visit is about gathering information, not starting treatment.
What’s the difference between Phase 1 and Phase 2 orthodontic treatment?
Phase 1 (early treatment) addresses specific issues while baby teeth are still present, usually between ages 7 and 10. This may include expanders or other appliances to guide jaw growth. Phase 2 is comprehensive treatment with braces or aligners once most permanent teeth have come in, typically ages 11 to 14. Not every child needs both phases.
Ready for Answers?
Here’s what it comes down to: the right time to bring your child in is when you’re ready for information. Age 7 is the guideline, but any time you have questions is the right time to ask.
A first visit doesn’t commit you to anything. It gives you clarity about where your child’s smile is headed, whether anything needs attention now, and what to expect down the road.
At our practice, we partner with families to make orthodontic care feel personal, flexible, and genuinely supportive. No corporate scripts. No pressure. Just a conversation with someone who gets it.
Have questions about your child? We’d love to meet you.
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About the Author
Dr. Nicole Wax, DDS, MS
Dr. Wax is a board-certified orthodontist with over 10 years of experience helping kids, teens, and adults achieve confident smiles. She holds a Doctor of Dental Surgery from The Ohio State University and a Master of Science in Orthodontics from the University of Detroit Mercy. A Diamond Plus Invisalign Provider and third-generation dentist, Dr. Wax was named to Flint and Genesee Group’s 40 Under 40 in 2024.
As a mom of four, she understands firsthand what families need from orthodontic care and brings that perspective to every consultation.